How can we fix this problem with out a fight or arguement?

This a question better answered by Dear Abby.

Can she arbitrarily make these decisions legally?

It unfortunately sounds like your former spouse wants to now follow the custody agreement to the letter. You should confirm same with her. If so,...

No. If he was fired for cause (misconduct) . But, you should be prepared to subpoena the employer who fired him to support your claim he was fired...

is it unlikely that I get awarded the xtra $? can the judge reduce my support? ideas of what else is considered undue hardship?

I am not familiar enough with your case to advise you on what-if any- objections you might have to the support magistrates decision but if you do...

How do we figure out support of our 18 year old son who will now be entering college out current paper say very little about thi

If your child support is payable pursuant to a New York order then it is payable through age twenty-one unless the child is sooner emanicipated or...

What can I do to help my fiancee?

You can look up the possible sentences by using crimetime which can be found at: https://crimetime.nypti.org/ It sounds like you did the...

If I have a arrest warrant at the United States, which countries I won't be able to travel anymore?

I do not think a lawyer can ethically answer your question as it may be considered an act of aiding and abetting a possible fugitive.

How hard it is to open an ACD based on the violation of the order of protection

It depends on whether it was a stay away order of protection or a refrain from order of protection. If it was a stay away order of protection you...

Can I modify spousal maintenance award based on changed circumstances ?

You might find informative the case at: http://law.justia.com/cases/new-york/other-courts/2015/2015-ny-slip-op-25128.html I suggest you have...

How do I start the process if lowering child support and how long do you have to wait before you can refile a petition to lower?

I suggest you review the information at: https://www.nycourts.gov/courthelp/diy/supportmodification.shtml