Can a lawyer help get an abuse case reopened? Police not helpful

If local law enforcement is not willing to pursue the matter then consider reporting the matter to state law enforcement.

Any contact with the support magistrate should not be done exparte. Any documents provide to a support magistrate should be simultaneously provided...

It is a crime. It may also possibly be grounds for an annulment based upon fraud. I suggest you have your lawyer take a closer look at the issue.

Should I pay and if so, what are my options concerning lower penalty and requesting a guarantee of no criminal charge?

Do the civil demand letters threaten you with criminal prosecution if you fail to comply with the civil demand? If so, it is extoration.

Can I prevent my ex-wife from obtaining a passport for my now 16 year old daughter? We have shared custody.

You might want to consider filing a petition to modify custody seeking a provision that the neither parent is not to take child out of country...

What is possible to do in this case? Is it any ways to avoid criminal record and points? Hope for your help.

You have been charged with a cell phone violation not a crime. You can read more about cell phone violations at:...

How much prison time do you think he will do?

I suggest you use crimetime to attempt to determine his possible sentences if convicted. It can be found at: https://crimetime.nypti.org/ It...

Do I have grounds to argue that I do not have to pay child support for this child?

You might be equitably estopped from denying you are the child's father for purposes of child support....

Will I?

I think you are confusing a Demand for Bill of Particulars with a Demand for Discovery. See:...

How and where do I apply for a modification in child support?

You would need to file a petition in family court for a modification of child support. The form can be found...