How do I fill out the top date and the bottom date (in a bolded box) on a FL-190 form?

You leave both those blank. That is for the clerk to fill out after you file your forms and your divorce is processed.

Can I have a restraining order renewal served on a defendant through the public defender on the scheduled appearance date?

If this is a criminal case in criminal court, then you do not serve, or do anything, the district attorney does. If this is a civil restraining...

Child born in a marriage but didn't realize I'll be the legal parent not the friend wife decided to co parent with?

The fact that the child was not conceived through sexual intercourse and rather artificial insemination is a crucial fact. Was the sperm donation...

You have left out probably the most important piece of information: how old is your child?!

If iam married but I have my mom last name can I change it and have my stepfather last name ?

If you are over 18 you can file a request in court to change your name anytime, to anything you want. Changing your name will not help your...

Can a child support order be filed against me no that my daughter is graduated from high school and 18 years old?

No. Unless mother filed any kind of request in court for child support prior to child's 18th birthday, there is nothing she can do now.

She is accusing me that im the mistress of his husband just a receipt that her husband send me lately is that sufficient evidenc

This is not a legal issue because even if you are sleeping with her husband that is not illegal and you've committed no crime. There is nothing the...

I'm charge with DV misdemeanor and I am both the victim and the defendant. Could I go to jail after first court date?

If criminal charges are involved you both should have court appointed lawyers and your lawyers need to advise you as to what will be most...

Does the opposing party in an ex Parte hearing get the opportunity in the hearing to oppose what the moving party is requesting?

If you have notice of the ex parte you can show up at the hearing and explain to the judge you already paid arrears. You will need to show proof of...

How to go about straightening out, stopping, and collecting back any overpaid or undue payments for a messy CS arrears order?

You are correct that your situation is very messy. Which means it is beyond the scope of an online advice forum like Avvo. Your only option is to...