My husband hasn't been at his job for a yr to get FMLA and was denied leave of absence for the birth of our baby

Ok, so is there a question you want answered here?

What if any rights as a grandmother do I have to see my grandchild?

Very limited rights that are complicated to explain in brief. Unless there's an order requiring visitation with you, you do not have a legal...

Is homosexual encounter a term physicians can use when you are trying to get treated for an STD scare?

A homosexual encounter is a homosexual encounter. This is a fact. If it is relevant, even marginally, to any treatment, there's no reason to call...

When does a law firm start representing a client? When they are investigating? Or when formal papers/formal contract signed?

Well, the representation starts when an attorney-client relationship is formed. That is a very fact-intensive question, and there's not a hard and...

Can I sue for slander/defamation?

Yep. You can sue anyone for anything. It doesn't sound like you have the elements of a provable case, and it also sounds like you don't have...

Is our landlord allowed to not sign a lease if we want one and the other tenants have one to protect themselves?

Correct, you are a month to month tenant. You have other legal remedies, such as repair and deduct, or insisting on the warranty of habitability...

Sure, hold that sign up. However, the officer will likely have suspicion to lawfully order you to pull over your vehicle, open your window and...

Are drivers licence unconstitutional requirement

No, they are not. The right to free travel is not the same as the right to climb into a 2.5 ton machine capable of mauling everything in its path.

How long does it normally take to get a QDRO for an IPERS account?

In my experience, not long. They've got a form QDRO you use and if they have questions, they'll call.

I made an offer on a home and now I want out.

Get thee to a real estate attorney! There's really no other way to deal with it, unless you're confident of what your rights and responsibilities...