Did my ex violate his NCO? Did the PHA violate VAWA by terminating my assistance? Do I have options?

This is way too many questions and way too complex for a simple question and answer forum like this. However, we wouldn't know whether he has...

Can a co owner or co signer just take off with vehicle if the payments are on time and never missed a payment ?

Not near enough information here. Is the daughter a minor? Loan on the car and to whom? Primary versus co-title? "And" vs. "or" on the title?

Call immediately. Apologize profusely?

What can i do to get four wheeler back?

An action for replevin looks like your best remedy.

Why do you want EOBs instead of the invoices? Is there some compelling reason you don't have enough information from the medical provider?

How would we go about modifying custody schedule with a potential out of state move?

Attorneys can't solicit here. You'll need to reach out to attorneys in your area.

Can our neighbor take a picture of my husband walking in our front door from her door

Yes, she can. I'm not sure what "creepily standing in her doorway" means, but I can't imagine it's a crime, unless it was indecent exposure or...

Is this an interstate crime?

No, this isn't an interstate crime and you don't show sufficient facts of a crime being committed at all.

30 day eviction in text

Not even close. The Iowa Landlord Tenant Act is a recipe for disaster for landlords who don't know its intricacies. If you want to actually evict...

Serving summons ?

Wow. You are severely misreading the rules. The answer is no.