Can estate lawyer hold house (that was left to me) from me until I put more money in the estate?

Ok. A few things. First, you mention you have an attorney. Iowa attorneys cannot give guidance to a represented party other than "you should...

Who is responsible for maintenance of a driveway that 2 neighbors have an easement to use ?

Usually, maintenance obligations would be handled in the agreement granting the easement. If there is no such allocation of maintenance, you'll...

I want to change back to my madin name as I am filing for divorce?

Yes, you can do that in your divorce.

My landlord lives with me, I have a signed lease. But he doesn't have a renters certificate. Am I tenant or a room mate?

You are asking all the wrong questions here. I know you write you don't have the money to get a lawyer or the "time to get a free one," but it...

Laws on liability for pastoral disclosure of private information

You pretty much ramble on here, and if there's a question buried, I just can't figure it out.

My boyfriend has filed a contempt of court through his lawyer. How long does it take to know when he has to go to court for it?

It depends on all kinds of things. The best person to ask is his lawyer.

Can we file harassment charges if we are constantly being accused of things by the mother that aren’t true?

Well, because those do not fit the definition of harassment, I wouldn't think those are worth pursuing.

Can gaurdianship be disolved?

A guardianship can be terminated. It is addressed with the Court in which the guardianship was granted.

No. Division is equitable. Names on accounts, joint holders, etc., are considered as evidence of intent but not dispositive.

Is it a wrongful arrest when I hesitated to sign a traffic ticket

Yeah, they probably took it a little farther than they needed to, but you are required to follow a lawful order of the police.