What?

We are attorneys, not fortune tellers. Without knowing why you lost your son and whether anything has changed or is different this time, we can't...

If you get in trouble for MIP and the cop waits until the next day to write the ticket is that legal?

Yes he can do that. Not sure why you include the other info.

You don't, unless you get a court to order him to or he does so voluntarily.

How can dhs keep my niece in a foster home when i am willing and able to have her placed in my care and passed a background chec

Sometimes they have reasons for avoiding placement with family. Also, being blood doesn't give you some established "right" over another person. ...

Why do landlords do thinks different if you don’t have a credit score?

Because landlords want to get paid. Credit score is one way of trying to make that much more likely.

Look at Iowa Code sections 724.1 and 724.29. It has not been tested either way, but seems likely legal to possess in Iowa, but selling them may be...

We aren't going to (and frankly can't) armchair quarterback your counsel. Ask your lawyer; s/he knows about your case, and we don't.

Can my 10 yr old daughter come live with me after living with her father for 4 yrs after separation?

Without a custody order, it's all up in the air. If you want to define custody, you should file for custody and visitation with a legal separation...

can my wife and I get guardianship of a 14 year old boy from Nebraska in Iowa whose parents are both dead?

You file a Petition for Guardianship. Probably Iowa, but seek out local counsel to be sure.

Occupancy Agreement?

Some context would be helpful ... It does sound a bit inartful, though.