It all depends. Contested? Consented?

Why would I get a letter asking me to pay $50 to Michael Its Asen for shoplifting at Target when I was not charged?

It doesn't matter whether you were charged or not. That was a civil penalty.

Is it illegal for families with children to live in rv in johnson county iowa?

Just wondering, eh? The answer depends on so many factors, it's not worth writing out an answer for "just wondering."

I was still allowed to work for a week and half before they sat me down to suspend me?

Yes, the employer can use its discretion to determine when to discipline you. You don't get a free pass just because four days have passed.

Can the cops pull me over just cause they know me and I don't have a license

Are you really asking whether a police officer who sees a crime being committed can issue a citation for that crime? If so, the answer is yes.

Can I press charges for sending a phone in the mail to my daughter to another address other than mine so i wont find out ?

There are much better ways to spend your time, as this would be a complete waste of effort.

Can I fire my divorce lawyer? If so, how without having to pay him?

Yeah, there's not a magic "how to fire your lawyer and avoid paying him" move, unfortunately. Whether he is entitled to payment is a question way...

What can I do about my probation officer lying to my doctor??

Find a different doctor. People complain about their probation officers all the time, and your complaint here is, frankly, pretty meager.

CanCan a woman nurse watch you take a urinalysis? Also can this be done by video where more than one can view

Under the right circumstances, yes, a nurse of the opposite sex could observe. I doubt they would get away with video in most instances, unless it...

Paid child support for 4 years for a child that in reality, wasn't mine.

Your math is off. $110 per month for four years is not $23,000. It's more like $6,200ish. The last I knew, Iowa does not explicitly recognize...