How do I get rid of a no contact order in a supposedly nulled case?

"Sexual harassment" is not a crime. "Nulled" is not anything that makes sense, so you'll need to be more specific.

How will my husband be found incompetent?

Are you talking about incompetent to stand trial? The best person to ask is his attorney. We can't do anything but speculate in a way that would...

Way, way, way too complicated for here. You'll need to meet with a bankruptcy attorney to figure all this out; there are far too many moving parts.

What do I need to do to take possession of truck for non payment?

Iowa Code Chapter 577 and possibly 579. This is not a DIY process.

Can I get my gun rights back?

He can't. Read up on the Violence Against Women Act.

How do you find a job when you apply at dozens of places, and you know its because you are a registered offender.

You have no protection as a registered offender from being turned down for a job, u less it is part of a broader hiring scheme that disadvantages...

I thought you can sue a judge and courthouse if they so something unethical is this true?

I like the effort you put into your question ... You can sue anyone at anytime for anything. However, judges and courthouse staff will have...

How do I find a pro bono lawyer?

I very seriously doubt you will find an attorney to take an OWI case pro bono. However, if you want to try, the first step would be your local bar...

Can probate occur in state in which heir resides instead of where decedent died, with no real property involved?

That would not give Iowa jurisdiction to administer his estate.

Yes. If there is evidence to put you in the car, you can be charged.