I imagine the state (both his parole officer AND the DHS, if contacted) would have some severe problems with this.

Probate takes time. Probate takes time. Probate takes time. I say that three times because it helps people remember it better when it comes up,...

How do I go about getting evidence for harrassment?

You don't "get" evidence. You find it by using the proper means. Here, you have no reason to request the evidence, so it's whatever you can get...

I believe my friend has two Warrant's for her arrest in another state. What could happen and how long would she serve jail time?

Your "friend" needs to talk to "attorneys" in the relevant jurisdictions. We could only guess.

Can I retrieve the car my ex drives

If you signed the title over to her, the assigned title means she has ownership of the car. The title would be sufficient to prove this, even if...

Can an employer force you to take unpaid time off?

Yes, your options have been laid out to you. They are not obligated to pay you for the time.

If you don't ask about the warrant, they generally won't voluntarily offer it. Yes, it is legal for them to share a letter with CPS. As to...

How do you get a letter of appointment.?

Letters of appointment are for a guardian/conservator or an executor for probate. So, you'll need to do/open one of those as necessary....

Can i ask to prove that i am the father

Nope. You have already been established as the father. You would need to file an action to "disestablish" paternity if you believe that you are...

I imagine your license will be suspended, along with your insurance going up.