Can I record or video tape DHS if they want to come into my house with my permission ?

Can you? Yes. Do they have to allow it? No.

Do I need to send proof of common law marriage in Iowa to irs before filing w4, employee withholding allow forms?

No, just you fill out the W4. Your husband needn't sign it, and you needn't send proof of marriage - common law or otherwise.

My attorney is charging me for the service i did not take for?

Ask for an itemized statement of charges. Compare the fee agreement and the arrangement against what you were charged. As it stands, it's unclear...

Is waiting at the daycare considered interfering with visitation or could it be contempt?

Be the bigger person. Support the children; diffuse the situation. If you have shared physical care of the children and you can't even figure...

You can certainly ask. Whether the employer is obligated to let you out of the process is a pretty fact-specific question.

Can a therapist legally refuse to allow parental visitations for a child placed outside the home?

Does your sister want the possibility of reunification or not? If so, do what the therapist says. If not, fight about the therapist's...

Can a therapist demand non patients to do psych evals in order for visitation?

You've seen them, at most, twice since September? That is a serious problem for you. Even if you wanted to refuse the therapist's request, the...

Seizure in jail

You'll need to serve your sentence. Figure out what you need to do to accomplish that.

Can i somehow sue DHS and the police for tearing up my house? Can i sue the people who called me in saying he was here?

This is all unnecessary and irrelevant sideshow. What you need to do is focus on reuniting with your children. The discretion afforded to law...

I'm not sure what you mean by "waiting period," unless you are talking about the 90 day waiting period in Iowa. If that's what you mean, you are...