You probably should have shown up to your hearing.

It would be premature to modify the decree if there are not actual college expenses.

Can I switch my 2 boys school when their father and I have 50/50 custody and still keep 50/50 custody?

What does your decree say? Usually in a situation like this, the decree would address the childrens' school district.

Is it possible to have sole custody without going to court?

If you were unmarried at the time, he does not have any recognized rights to custody or visitation of the child.

How do I get a divorce when I don't know where he is?

There are ways to give notice, but they are dependent on what channels you have to get it to him. They all generally require you to prove an...

It is extremely unorthodox without some other reason to be together.

I have a tenant just moved into my rental house and the water dept. Called informed me they are moving a camper in back yard liv

Well, let's start with your lease. What does that say?

Without legal action (and perhaps even with it), you have no right to it. You don't get access to whatever document you want just because you want...

Will my husband be held in contempt of court is his son's mother has not attempted to use her visitation time?

You can modify the court order if there are reasons it shouldn't be followed.

There are many, many ways this could turn out badly for you, not just through Iowa's harassment statute. Invasion of privacy is one, and I've seen...