What would my next steps be should I agree to pay even if they take me to court?

To avoid going through the court proceeding? Have them agree to dismiss or continue it OR pay the debt. If you want to figure out how to advocate...

How do I get a hold of my brothers assets after his death?

Through legal action. Next of kin means nothing - you'd need to be his legal successor under the intestacy statute.

Do I need to follow up with a lawyer and press charges against this officer?

Ok. So a deputy isn't obligated to handle this whatever way you think is best, or even how you ask him/her to. I'm at a loss for how you think you...

Is it possible to get a restraining order against a grandparent who lives in a different state for no contact of a minor ?

Your question of: is it possible? Yes.

In Iowa I have to be 16 to pack up and leave. In Illinois it's 17. However if I'm an Iowa resident can I move to Illinois at 16?

What you state is actually not true. If you move out at 16 without your parents' consent, you would be a runaway and subject to arrest and return.

You just said the over 18 person signed for the car, so yes, that's permissible. Unless there was a warranty, a used car for cash is almost...

It's probably not an actual protective order, but yes, he can certainly tell your boyfriend to stay away from you. And he can have him sent back...

Can I get in trouble for reporting someone?

Step 1: Look up revenge porn. Step 2: Think about whether you want a criminal record at this age, especially of what could very well be a sexual...

Nope, you need to request relief from the governor. She hasn't been generous with this.

I'm a 16 year old girl and i want to get emancipated.. how do i do that?

Iowa Code 232C. You mention nothing here that qualifies you except for your age.