What should i do?

Yes, you can file for divorce. Iowa is a no fault state, and his consent isn't required.

You do not appear to grasp the gravity of this situation. She allegedly lied to get the protective order and you think she is trustworthy enough...

I need do you know if they can keep personal property without a warrant

Yes. Under the right circumstances, the police can keep your property without a warrant and enter your house without a warrant.

If my co-defendant on theft case isn't ordered to pay restitution but only I am? Can I get time knocked off my sentence for it?

If you thought that was relevant, you should have made that argument at sentencing.

You can try whatever you like, but if you think you can outsmart DHS, they have seen it *all* before. They obviously want to do the follicle test...

Can I break my lease for Unforeseeable circumstances

Not unless that is in your lease. Unless you negotiated it in there, the landlord would have no reason to do so.

What are my rights ?

If you've been caught on camera (pretty common with these), I suggest you lawyer up and dont make any statements to law enfocement.

You can sue anyone for anything. What are your damages, exactly?

What happens if there is no termination procedure in a daycare contract?

Without seeing your contract, it is impossible to definitively give guidance. However, if the contract does not have a termination provision, you...

That is entirely a PO's call. Ask him/her.