Can the filing party of a divorce fix the separation date after papers were notarized if they give the other party a copy?

Its not clear if it's an uncontested or contested divorce.

Can I sue the department of corrections in ga for being locked up for a probation violation 3 Times

No. You can't leave the state; you're on probation.

When they divorce, will my mom have to split her savings 50/50 with my dad? Who will pay alimony?

She will have to reveal her finances during the discovery process of the divorce.

Can I remove my roommates belonging from my home?

No. You have to evict through the courts.

Am I responsible for 1/2 of extra curricular activities for my children?

Not if the decree is silent on the topic.

During DUI assessment, does the drug screen test for buprenorphine?

Depends on what screening test / method is issued. If you have a Rx, you should disclose. If you don't, you should stop using the drug, at least...

If I spit on a caseworker at the social services can I due time in jail they locked me up after it happen

Yes you can do jail time for that act.

Is it normal to have a separate attorney for court?

You don't ask about a co-counsel. You fire this attorney and get a new one or stick with her.

Get a continuance and hire an attorney. That's the best shot you have.

How can I pay less or get the penalty waived for breaking lease terms?

Pay the penalty, don't move, or hire an attorney to attempt to assist you in addressing the penalty.