As per the Divorce judgment i have to pay my spouse within 30 days and it is impossible for me. what to do?

You can ask for appeal. But if you do not appeal, you need to follow order otherwise you will be in contempt.

Can i make it so my ex has visitation every weekend even tho hes in jail?

Yes you can if you think it is going to be in best interest of child.

If my fiancé put a petition for his parents it’s been 3 years already & now he wants to get married will it affect his parents?

Listen what their attorney said and follow it.

Doubtful because if they have joint legal custody, they can make decision together.

Can my daughter move to Valdosta GA in Lowndes county with her baby legally?

She can file for sole custody. However, she needs to prove that sole custody is in best interest of child.

Since you are married for 3 years, it might not be a lot you can get.

After serving my spouse, she is still refusing to sign but has not taken me to court, what can are my options now?

Talk to attorney to find out the way to work it out.

I acuse my daughter father to hit me and throw baby in the crib I want drop the charges if I see his lawyer what should I say ?

Discuss with attorney whether you can make testimony.

I live in NY and I would like to get a divorce from my wife who resides in Ecuador? Is it possible to file here in the states?

You need to meet residency requirements under NY Domestic Relations Law for state court has jurisdiction over divorce.

Penalty for giving false statements to police??? Can I face jail time??

Explanation that you did not have intent to make false statements to police.