So 10 years ago, in NJ was it possible to sign over all parental rights for a father if going through court mediator?

In general, a parent cannot just surrender parental rights to a child unless there is another legally responsible person who will step forward. ...

Yes, DCPP (FKA DYFS) can obtain your child's medical records without your consent as part of their investigatory process.

Dyfs?

DYFS, DCPP, must investigate all referrals of child abuse or neglect no matter who calls in the allegation. A person who makes a referral does not...

Will I have an opportunity to present evidence during a Custody Modification Hearing?

I'm not sure from your question whether your case is scheduled for a trial or oral argument on a motion. You should have your lawyer explain this...

Can my ex file an "enforce litigants rights" form and ask me to reinburse him for time that he didnt see my son?

I agree with the other attorneys who said that there is very little chance that he will recover financially for missed visitation, which is...

Is there such a thing as an alimony buyout and tax free? Does 50% joint custody qualify me for child support?

You are pro se if you represent yourself. Child support is based on the NJ child support guidelines. Even with equal parenting, there could be...