I live in CA, what should I do when my ex is asking the court for more child support but she won't file an Income & Expense Dec.

The judge will not order child support without an Income & Expense Declaration. It is a required form. Given that the court has already admonished...

Immigration: Does it help a non-citizen abuser, convicted of domestic violence ,to avoid deportation if victim withdraws CPO?

You listed this as a "Domestic Violence" question, again. I'm changing it to "Immigration" for you. Also, as I said before, she cannot withdraw...

This is an Immigration Law question, so I'll re-categorize it for you.

Extracurricular activities are not shared by default. The parties have to agree to share the expenses. The only default shared expenses would...

Does it help abuser to avoid deportation if victim withdraws the criminal protective order?

I will change the category of this question to Immigration Law for you, since that is the type of lawyer who could answer this specific question...

How can i see status of my divorce

Use this link to see what has been filed and what (if any) hearings have been scheduled: https://cmportal.scscourt.org/Portal/Home/Dashboard/29

Is it too late for an annulment?

Grounds for annulment include either: a) The marriage was illegal (see, Bigamy), or b) The marriage was induced through the use of fraud (e.g....

Can I file for contempt of court myself?

You can, indeed, file a contempt citation yourself, but there is a reason why your attorney is asking $1,000 to do it (and that's cheap)....

What happens next?

The parent with whom the children live usually claims them. If you are getting child support, look at the exemptions listed on your printout....

Will a judge accept and uncontested divorce where the couple agree to not split their asset?

You can divide your marital estate (or not) however you wish, so long as your spouse has had the opportunity to make an intelligent (i.e. advised)...