What can I do. I have to represent myself because he is behind in child support and Maintenance

That's pretty much it, if he's in violation, you can file a contempt pleading. It will give both parties a chance to negotiate a fair outcome as...

Can i refund at least half of what i paid?

Many factors will impact your options, for one, the terms of the written contract (Hopefully there is on). I would look to that first, if it's...

How can I request a default judgment for divorce?

You can't file for default until he's served. Hire a special process server, they serve people who don't want to be served. Have a lawyer help...

When putting house in trust

Since you have an attorney, we can't interfere with that. I know it's frustrating, you paid money, you're not inclined to throw more money away on...

Per the statute and caselaw, it will make it more difficult. You'll want to run all this by a lawyer before you start on something that'll take...

Is it perjury?

More specifically (And I just argued a case like that), caselaw requires that the failure of timely notice robbed you of the ability to defend or...

A BANK HAS NOT PRODUCED THE ORIGINAL CHECK THEY CLAIM TO HAVE PAID US IN EXCHANGE FOR OUR PROPERTY, HOW TO DISMISS/COUNTER?

If it was set for a sheriff's sale, then that ship has likely already sailed as that means you've already been foreclosed on. The time to have...

You can't, but you can get a special process server appointed and have them serve the tenant. Special Process Servers serve people who don't want...

What costs are incurred maintaining a irrevocable trust?

It really depends what's being put into the trust. The trustee is entitled to "reasonable" compensation, however often that person is going to be...

I am in debt to my sister& brother-in-law for ~$56K so will this be considered debt that will be used as a credit in my divorce?

Your question raises two issues; a) any improvement you made to the marital home, b) how the court will look at the debt. I will address (b)...