Do I need pay the loan she was awarded and the one I was awarded?

If you feel like you have to make a payment to avoid hurting your credit, garnishment, etc., you may want to do so. You can then file a contempt...

Look at C.R.C.P. 59. You may be able to file a motion requesting that the court amend its findings and or judgment, regarding the arrears totals...

Can I start the custody process before I find another job or should I wait because it might affect my insurance?

Based on the limited information, there isn't a right or wrong answer here. You can start your allocation of parental responsibilities case at...