If i asked for a copy of the video for my defense and the DA says there isnt any because the LP didnt save it whats my chances?

Shouldn't you be talking with your attorney? It may come down to then credibility of those who testify...

Does my wife and I need to be served individually if we're pro pers?

You need an attorney. Doing this pro per while the other side has a counsel is a recipe for disaster. They filed the demurrer, not sure how or why...

Yes they can deny it... The TANF rules (when I worked TANF eligibility) does not use many expenses... Assuming you are eligible because you are...

You need to discuss this with probate attorney. Her debts belong to the estate while the 401k may not be in the estate...

It was unclear if I was able to join the navy do to having dismissed charges and a deferred judgment could I still join.

Agreed. Without knowing the charges..you may need a moral waiver

You need a good lawyer

Can California garnish my S.S. disability benefits for an unpaid, 7yo public transportation violation ticket?

Pay your ticket. Being on Ss disability does not exempt you from the law...

HOW DO I FIND OUT IF THE PERSON I SUED APPEALED MY WINNING CASE AGAINST HIM AND IF HE DID FILE AN APPEAL IS IT AT THE SAME COURT

Look up the case at the LA Court website. You also have to be notified.

Post conviction... How can I get the full police reports??

I would think that this would have been part of discovery before trial..

My foreman I think got busted for transporting 4lbs of meth via mail to San Diego that got seized.

Four pounds of meth us serious. Showing up to court us not going to help him... Only a criminal attorney will help now