Can I start the process/paperwork when I’m 18 then file/send it when I’m 21 for my parents?

That depends on what process/paperwork you are talking about.

What are the major decisions to make?

The big decisions to make regarding separation concern custody (if you have minor children), child and spousal support, and division of marital...

Can he take my child out of state without permission

It would depend on what the current custody order says regarding visitation. You mention that he doesn't currently have overnight visitation. If...

Changes jurisdiction for child custody from NH to VA

If the children have resided in Virginia for more than six months, Virginia would be their "home state" for purposes of determining jurisdiction. ...

I didn't open a credit card account in my name, but my husband did and claimed we lived in a state that allows that to happen?

You state that your husband told me that you "loved in a state that allows this to happen." Without knowing the state, the question can't be...

Can I live with my dad and his girlfriend if my mom has full custody ?

Is there currently a custody order? What does it say? Have you spoken about this with your father? Although the court's will generally consider...

Does a step parent have visitation rights if the biological parent’s right have been terminated?

I'm not certain how a power of attorney could give "access rights" to someone else's child. You should probably review this with an attorney. ...

How can I gain sole custody with visitation for the absent parent of my 2 year old son?

You've stated your reasons very clearly. The fact that the noncustodial parent has had no recent involvement with the child, etc., gives you a...

While the fact that your name is not on the birth certificate does not Legally remove your status as father of the child, I would suggest that you...

Do I need to come back to USA? Can I file for appeal against final custody order? What is the time period to file appeal?

I am doubtful that extradition proceedings would be used against you, although your husband might file an action to return the child under the...