Ex husband not paying permanent alimony due to lupus which he found out last year it is court ordered and we are divorced

This appears to be the same poster as the one this morning, but just with some further details. Not sure why you started a brand new post instead...

Can i file for a seperation without my husband present?

In NC, you don't file for separation. Sounds like you have not been separated for a year yet so yes you do need to wait one full year living in...

Do i really have to be seperated a year before i can get divorced?

Yes, you REALLY have to be separated one full year before either of you can file for divorce, no matter how amicable or no assets the case may be....

It is my understanding from the facts you are even separated yet. Still living together, just having problems, and family stepping in. So the other...

Ex husband is not paying permenant alimony he is working full time but his excuse is he has lupus and need to pay medical bill

You didn't really clarify whether there is a current separation agreement or court order in place requiring him to pay you alimony. Which if there...

What is my defense for this small claim complaint?

Even though it sounds like you have some likely defenses and even though this is small claims court, it would behoove you to consult with a local...

I agree with the other answers. And to add, how much is this "substantial amount"? If it's $10K or less, you can go to small claims court, which...

My husband has decided that hes gay. Can I file for fault divorce after 25+ years? W

Sorry to hear about your situation. But in NC there is no such thing as a fault divorce. You have the right to file divorce for any or no reason,...

Can my Husband come into the house and can I change the locks ?

I agree with Attorney Haas. And just wanted to add, it does sound very strange and honestly "non sequitur" if you are saying he actually agreed to...

Do I need an attorney to file a lien against property in NC?

You did not specify any time frames here but you need to act fast! You need to secure your lien within 120 days (which by the way is NOT the same...