Can I refuse to follow visitation order if the non custodial parent is not in accordance with the aggrement?

No that would not be wise. You should take him to court on a motion for contempt and/or for modification. In your county, there are pro se forms...

I have a court ordered custody order for my son I need some advise on this years Christmas Visit and "supercedes"

It is really not easy or wise for us to definitely answer such a question without seeing the actual language ourselves. But generally...

The non custodial parent isn't in accordance with the visitation. Should I go out of my way to make the visitation happen?

Depending on how frequent this has been happening and how much of a hassle it is for you, you can consider taking HIM to court for not following...

What will happen my daughter 17 got caught stealing Candy and a drink $5. She goes to court Mondays what will happen to her.

Hoping and assuming this is her first offense and she has pretty much a clean record, she could probably try to apply for the First Offenders...

Where does a court ordered co-parenting therapist file:give her report?

The judge should have stated in his/her ruling as to how any such information or reports would be sent back. Often it is just to the court. Or...

So sorry to hear what happened. But...what exactly is your question? I assume you just want to know more about the small claims court process...

You would need to meet with an attorney in an actual consult to go over all of the facts, timeline of events, etc. and then learn about the proof...

If my future husband has previous debt before our marriage does it become mine?

Great news! Those premarital debts in his name will stay his. Unless you all enter into a prenuptial agreement for example that changed that.

What are my rights if I'm served divorce papers?

It sounds like you have not separated yet, so no he cannot legally serve you with "divorce" papers. That being said, yes he can serve you with...

How can I get custody of a child I've been raising since he was born (2012)?

It gets a little complicated when it's a non-biological parent who is trying to seek custody of a child, but it can be done under the right set of...