Did my i-130 expire?

You may be able to recover this petition. In the absence of that, you will have to re-file your petition.

When applying for opt extension if I sent USCIS with incomplete package (missing i-20) would I be able to submit the i-20 later?

If the delay is COVID related you may be granted additional time. Generally, incomplete applications are rejected and returned to the applicant.

While you have not been charged by the government for any crime related to drugs, this is not a positive development and will have to be disclosed...

It certainly will not help. "Domestic violence case" is rather broad and difficult to determine the impact without more details.

You can certainly ask for it to be expedited. U visas also have an annual cap, so expediting will be difficult.

You need to spend a little time and sort this out. It's not clear to me what actually happened from your question.

How to fix frozen Asylum clock for no reason ( happened after corona virus )

You are stuck in limbo. You can certainly apply for your EAD and see what happens.

Hi my sister in US has applied for petition to alien relative to sponsor me , she applied in 2015, how long will it take?

It is going to be a while. Check the visa bulletin.

Can we apply F1 student visa after filling immigrant visa?

Yes she can apply for an F-1. She may eligible for Asylum if she was persecuted by the Hong Kong government.

Your father is the primary sponsor and you are the joint. Each application needs its own I-864s.