Will I be entitled to part of the house me & wife lived in even though its only in her name here in Washington state?

It's not clear from your question whether your divorce is final or not. If it is, your final divorce order will say whether you have any rights to...

All property, separate and community, is subject to division in Washington State. You haven't provided the facts necessary to assess whether it is...

What is the statute of limitation for probate? How do I deal with being "shunned" by late Husbands family on all accounts?

you can probate the community property portion of the estate . See a probate attorney and take control of the situation.

Where you were married is irrelevant. If both you and your spouse live in the same county, file there. If not, it's more complicated and you...

Can the father take the kids if there is no parenting plan, even if he hasn't seen them for over a year?

If he's the father his rights are no different than yours. If you want some order to your life get a parenting plan in place to say who is the on...

What constitutes child custody past the age of 18 besides physical or mental disability, I am almost 18 and my mother says there

Your an adult at 18. Feel free to provide your own housing, food, insurance, clothing at that time. Good luck.

Can a handwritten letter sent to an email I wrote be used against me

Sure. It's your words. It will show you made an agreement and broke it.

Provide any and all notices, emails, texting, documents, memos documents in any form whatsoever, that references the dog?

Answers to request for production are often several feet thick. It's not your duty to worry about whether it is the document they are looking for....

I there a required length of residency before filing for divorce in WA

If you are a resident of Washington, you can obtain a final divorce order here. You become a resident of Washington when you intend to do so. ...

My 17 year old doesn’t want to see his Dad

If there's a court order in place saying the child is to be with Dad, and you don't take reasonable steps to make that happen, you are arguably in...