Our parenting plan clearly states we are both allowed to take out of state trips with the kids, can he force mediation?

If the PP clearly states that then yes, he will have nothing to argue about. Did he tell you what his argument would be?

I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 20 YEARS AND WE HAVE 3 KIDS AND BOUGHT A HOME TOGETHER. DO I FILE DIVORCE

No divorce but you definitely need to see an attorney to help you through the parenting plan and other issues you will be going through. Some...

Cna my wife get rid of my belongings and deny me from coming and collecting them?

Hire an attorney to negotiate a property settlement with her. Those belongings are most likely actually 50/50 both of yours so you guys need to...

Can my boss demand that I test my glucose levels if I am sweating?

That is weird. I would think not but maybe.....never heard of this before.

How long would they give my 19 yr old for dv in the 2nd

Ms. Carter is correct. It entirely just depends and hiring an attorney for your son is the best thing you can do right now.

Can the grandparents have control of my son while visiting for the summer? He is supposed to be with me in the Summer.

That is not the way it works. You son does not have to be with either you or you husband 24/7 until he turns 18. Both of you are allowed to have...

Do i have rights to my daughter if i wasn't present at birth or BC signing?

You need to establish paternity through the court.

Can I be required by my auto insurance to be seen by an independent medical examiner?

As you can see from the other answers, you are up against some pretty strong interests here. That is one of the reasons it is best to hire an...

Call around and ask if the attorney offers flat fees for this kind of thing.

Is this a safety concern in custody?

Based on what you said in the post and in the comments section I do not think there is much you can do at this point, realistically.