As to decision making, unless the PP gives you sole decision making regarding haircuts, each parent can do as she/he peases.

Does father need to be present for child exchanges?

Not unless there is a court order specifying that he need be present.

Scheduling surgeries

Depends on what the surgeon wants yo to do. if you have sole decision making, It may not be a problem,

Superior Court ordered Non-Parental Temporary Custody does this order give permission for the custodian to take physical custody

No way to answer the question without examining the court file . You need to schedule a consultation with an attorney to review the file.

Could i live with my friend if one parent has custody?

Kids in Wa. state d not get to choose with whom they live over the objection of the parent. Your Mom, if she is the primary custodial parent,...

How can I gather evidence regarding my childs father not following the court order?

Yes as long as your not trespass or breach the peace.

Moving within same county

If you move out of the school district in which the child resides, you MUST comply with the relocation act by giving the non-custodial written...

Temp visitation order and child exchanges

file a motion to clarify the court order if ore than 10 days have past since the order was signed,

Is there any case law in CA that allows an order for contempt based on an oral ruling? I should have extenuating circumstances

The rule are different in CA then they are in Wa -- you need to consult with an attorney licensed to practice in CA -- this is a froum for WA...

Immigration-parents consent

There are many, many specific forms you must file with the service and they all require filing fees. If is clear you do not understand immigration...