What papers do I need to file to be able to contest a request for post-secondary support?

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To add to a decleration of a parenting plan, how would i get the arrest records of a certain individual.

Go to the police station and make a public request or you can see what you can dig up here:...

If I have no possible way of affording post-secondary education on two of my children, how can I make the court understand this?

Perhaps you should look into hiring an attorney who can represent you. They will have the experience and knowledge to defend your position.

Parents shared half of some monthly income, after divorce. Dad passed away. I Should get his half, mom suggests pro bono lawyer.

For free legal help you can also look into the neighborhood legal clinics: http://www.kcba.org/pbs/nlc.aspx#nlcpage4

Defaulted in husband's favor due to atty not filing anything on my behalf for temp. maintenance. Need advice please

It could be that the attorney attached your proof to the motion, so only the one document is showing up. You can go down to the courthouse and look...

What to do when the mother of our child takes our daughter and won't give her back?

Do you have a parenting plan in place? If not, you need to get into court and get one as soon as possible. You may want to hire an attorney to do...

You should consult with the prosecuting attorney on this.

What should I bring along?

Have you thought about providing letters from your counselors stating your progress in therapy?

At child custody trial-if no witnesses show up on my side (respondent)

Can you follow back up with your witnesses and confirm that they are planning to show up? A friendly reminder might help. Good luck!

I was awarded a child support modification becuase I am perm disabled

A revision will only be on the documents already submitted, so you don't need to submit anything new. It may be wise to call the judge's bailiff...