My wife just got admitted to inpatient substance abuse treatment, Can I use FMLA to care for kids while she is away

See https://www.dol.gov/whd/fmla/.

On the 1st hypothetical question found 2 jobs and the 2nd question found 0 jobs, what does that mean? Good sign?

Your question doesn't appear to provide sufficient information.

Your recovery is limited to the insurance claim.

I have a judgement from a car accident almost 10 years ago? My license is still suspended. How can I get my license back.

Bankruptcy is often an effective method of getting a fresh start financially. https://www.avvo.com/find-a-lawyer

Hey tumor was found growing on my kidney more than 4 years ago an MRI by my gastriologist it was reported to my primary care

Click on "Find a Lawyer". https://www.avvo.com/find-a-lawyer. See RCW 7.70 (https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=7.70).

Can i get my down payment back from a dealer ship?

The AG website has good information on that. See http://www.atg.wa.gov/file-complaint

You (or preferably your attorney) should ask about a Compromise of Misdemeanor. See https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=10.22

Can my probation officer force me to attend certain treatments that only he likes, or is any credible office enough?

Probation is usually preferable to going back to jail to serve out the remainder of your sentence in confinement.

What does it mean if a court is without jurisdiction

The American legal system includes both state courts and federal courts. State courts hear cases involving state law, and such federal laws as are...

Can I file a temporary order to change a temporary p. plan that a judge has already signed?

Parenting Plans can be modifiable upon a showing of a substantial change in circumstances.