There should have been an opportunity to claim exemptions. https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?Cite=6

Is there anything we can do? biological moms rights were reinstated because of a technical error on behalf of the department.

A courts can vacate a judgment where a party didn't receive proper service, notice, and an opportunity to be heard. Sadly, it's a do over.

What rights do I have and what steps do I take?

Sue for replevin. https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=7.64

Domestic violence, child custody,

You should retain an attorney. If you didn't receive proper notice of court proceedings and an opportunity to be heard, it can be grounds for...

At my hearing the pre-a signed Judge had hostile comments to me, with a copy of the transcript what is the procedure to file ?

See https://app.leg.wa.gov/rcw/default.aspx?cite=4.12.040 and 050.

Does Washington state have any laws protecting women in long term relationships?

A trial court dealing with the termination of a committed intimate relationship may distribute property that would qualify as community property...

Bankruptcy and divorce?

See RCW 26.09.080 and 090. https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=26.09 Many divorce debts are not dischargeable in bankruptcy. ...

Your statement doesn't seem to describe a crime. RCW 9 - 10. https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx Courts can modify parenting plans upon a...

Serving a summons and modifying child support

If you're in King County, read the King County Local Family Law Rules. https://www.kingcounty.gov/courts/clerk/rules.aspx When you file a...

https://www.dcyf.wa.gov/safety/report-abuse