What do I do when my exhusband changes my address through my health care provider without my knowledge or consent?

If you file a lawsuit, your attorney or the judge can issue a subpoena. CR...

Is it legal for a 25 year old to send erotic literature to a 17 year old?

See...

What you want doesn't look like an adoption. https://www.dcyf.wa.gov/services/adoption Wills can express a preference for the care of...

Will I get monthly payment from my husband though he will keep the kids?

It depends on the factors set forth in RCW 27.09.090. https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=26.09.090

My husband has been arrested and I want to file for divorce I have been in Washington for 2 1/2 months Can I file anyway?

You can file right away, but you can't get it finalized until 90 days have passed. See the...

What can I do when my daughter is with her dad for 15 days by court order and he wont let me speak with her?

Write her a letter and read it to her when you get her back.

You can complain to the insurance commissioner: https://www.insurance.wa.gov/file-complaint-or-check-your-complaint-status

Can I refuse to sign a medical history report for the department of children youth and families Licensing Division (DCYF)

In my experience, cooperation with government bureaucrats is easier than trying to fight them.

What are my rights as his wife ?

See the following: https://www.washingtonlawhelp.org/issues/family-law/dissolution-of-marriage-divorce

Custody trial was on May 1st. Judge has not made a decision yet. How long can it take? It has been over a month now.

It doesn't take that long. Check with your attorney or check the public records at the courthouse.