How do I find a legal aid in defense against APS in a false allegation situation case

In addition to the "Find a Lawyer" tab and a google search, you can try the County Bar Association: http://www.kcba.org/

Per CR 6: "In computing any period of time prescribed or allowed by these rules, by the local rules of any superior court, by order of court, or...

It would probably be better if you retained an attorney to appear and work towards a complete resolution of the case.

My service animal is being held hostage by a former friend I own the dog and filled a small claims lawsuit against him

If you file in Superior Court, you can ask for temporary orders and an injunction.

In Superior Court: "When a statement of the accused is to be offered in evidence, the judge at the time of the omnibus hearing shall hold or set...

Do I need a license to send our direct mail?

See https://www.consumer.ftc.gov/articles/0262-stopping-unsolicited-mail-phone-calls-and-email

Do I have eligibility to be a jury?

"To be eligible for jury service, you must be at least 18 years of age, a citizen of the United States, a resident of the county in which you are...

Who is responsible for medical Bill's when an accident if.found.to be equally at fault and.neither insurance company wants to p?

Your friend's daughter should forward all correspondence about the collision to her insurance company and let them defend.

I was sued twice in small claims court without being served, can I counterclaim the opposing party?

I agree with the previous answer. When a court dismisses a case "with prejudice", it means it can't be legitimately filed again. Regarding a...

Can I negotiate with my own insurance company about pain and suffering settlements?

You should retain an attorney. If you have PIP coverage, you should use it for the medical bills immediately. Your UIM claim should compensate...