The previous answer appears to be correct.

After 26 years ex refuses to give paternity test to father what can i do

See http://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/?fa=forms.contribute&formID=44 and https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=26.26A

Can I sue someone who used me for money then disappeared?

Small Claims Court might work. https://www.kingcounty.gov/courts/district-court/small-claims.aspx

They are supposed to give you notice and an opportunity to be heard. You can make a motion to the court issuing the orders.

Will my marriage license be valid?

Your legal name is what is on your birth certificate or what a court of law has ordered it to be most...

Got remarried, found out Im not divorced from Prior husband. Can we get annuled? Its been 30 years and we're both remarried

Most likely you need to get a Decree of Dissolution (divorce) for any marriage you wish to have ended. You can then get married. An alleged...

See RCW 7.21 https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=7.21 and http://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/?fa=forms.contribute&formID=9

How?

I have to recommend that you tell the truth.

See https://app.leg.wa.gov/rcw/default.aspx?cite=46.37.430

You can usually tell if you got a ticket by checking your mailbox.