Attend the Microsoft Ignite Annual conference or IEEE Technical Conference, which would most be valued when you apply for EB1

See https://www.uscis.gov/working-united-states/permanent-workers/employment-based-immigration-first-preference-eb-1

How can I end my marriage of 1 month from my ex?

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If the court has ended my marriage, can my ex-wife still get half the assets?

Courts tend to favor deciding cases on the merits.

First, find a law firm that is doing such actions. Statutes of limitations can vary from State to State.

See https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=7.70

What are my options if my son won't return home on his own will and is staying with another family who will not return him?

Harboring a fugitive child is a crime. You can call the police.

Divorce may be for...

I left my wife who resides in Southern California,I am in Tacoma WA,I will not have any child or spousal support ,just a divorce

https://www.washingtonlawhelp.org/issues/family-law/dissolution-of-marriage-divorce and http://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/?fa=forms.contribute&formI...

Can I file for divorce if I'm in Tacoma WA,and she is in Southern California,,if so how??? ?

Sure. See...

Property split in a default divorce?

See https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=26.09.080