Do I have to take the consequence made my attorney?

Washington's Rules of Professional Conduct specifically provide that "A lawyer shall abide by a client's decision whether to settle a matter". RPC...

See https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=7.48 and https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=59.18

My case is really hard to explain but I need to no if my rights were taken can I get them back

It is possible to petition for reinstatement of parental rights. http://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/?fa=forms.contribute&formID=15

My case is difficult but my son was removed after being returned home to me and my sons dad they decided they want to remove him

That's very sad. https://komonews.com/news/local/dshs-sued-over-case-of-3-lake-stevens-children-living-in-filth

How can I prepare my 17 year-old Autistic daughter who refused to go with her dad for her Habeas Corpus hearing on Monday?

The best way to deal with an appearance in a court of law is to tell the truth.

I was raped in 1992. The perp's family member (Family Court Commissioner) permanently removed my custody 25 years later...

Not every problem has a solution in a court of law.

See http://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/?fa=forms.contribute&formID=94 and https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=9A.46.110

Daughter left my house for 10 months due to me taking her phone away for drinking. mother has won custody and lied and won

Courts have to rule in accordance with the preponderance of the evidence. Deadlines can really be serious. Maybe you should appeal or petition...

What is considered reasonable to the courts when it comes to phone privileges?

Your parenting plan should have a dispute resolution provision.

The problem with asking for a court order about that is that there is probably no legal precedent, which doesn't mean it isn't an understandable...