What happens to pending divorce when annulment is filed?

An annulment says there was never a marriage. In a divorce, the court can issue orders about division of property, child support, parenting plans,...

Domestic violence recantation?

There are forms: http://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/?fa=forms.contribute&formID=86 Your circumstances may indeed raise questions about your credibility.

You ask the court to consolidate cases by making a motion. http://www.courts.wa.gov/court_rules/?fa=court_rules.list&group=sup&set=CR You should...

What can i do now that i have custodial interference on the noncustodial parent?

You would think the police would be able to find nearly anybody. I've seen private investigators find people in amazing ways.

Should i file and how important is it to file a written response to a petition?

You (or preferably your attorney) should definitely respond to any appeal.

How can I legally disown my family?

Usually, at the age of 18 a person in legally emancipated and entitled to the liberty and autonomy of an adult.

If the father is knowingly absent, what steps can I take to terminate his rights? Does that end his obligation pay child support

See http://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/?fa=forms.contribute&formID=15 and the statutes cited in the footers on the forms.

CPS had me do something when it wasn't me what can be done?

The circumstances you describe in your statement do appear to be terribly unfair.

Filing a summons and complaint?

You can either serve or file first. You file the originals and serve copies. After service, you can have the proof of service filed.

Your statement is vague. You should clarify what it is you're asking about.