Is there any strict law for showing a person middle finger without any reason?

There isn't any strict law about that, but see State v. Savaria, 82 Wn. App. 832, 919 P.2d 1263 (1996) where the following facts...

How do I request a new state appointed lawyer?

Make a motion to the judge. You might want to talk about it with your current lawyer and maybe he or she will make it happen.

See http://www.atg.wa.gov/bushing-scams You can complain to the AG: http://www.atg.wa.gov/safeguarding-consumers

Can I recant/withdraw my signed video statement I made to police?

Maybe you can make an additional statement explaining.

The Electronic System for Travel Authorization (via Visa Waiver Program) has a website. https://esta.cbp.dhs.gov/esta/

I was told by my local courthouse that I could find a probate packet on line at www,washingtonlawhelp.org?

https://www.washingtonlawhelp.org/issues/aging-elder-law/wills-probate-other-advanced-directives What might work better is an action to quiet...

How do I give back items to ex boyfriend who refuses to communicate but is holding my personal property?

You can sue for replevin. http://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=7.64

How do I go about getting my belongings from my ex husband house?

You should speak with an attorney about your family law problems. There is a statute that allows the court to make your ex-husband pay your...

Do i need to reapply for fresh L1A visa or just file a new petition ?

The correct category for your question would be Immigration, so I shall change that for you.

Can I sue the bank that he knew about fraud and intentionally transfer our money to criminal people?

If you sue somebody, you have the burden of proving your allegations by a preponderance of the evidence.