If I’m military but out of state and need to take the landlord to small claims to return my deposit do I have to be present??

Yes, you would probably have to be present. You could file in District Court and have an attorney appear for you.

Can a separate contracting company take a 1/3rd of my yard, even though I bought the house with it being displayed as mine?

Perhaps a survey would be appropriate.

My husband lied on 25 of 80 questions on interrogitories. I have hard copy proof for all of them. What is the penalty?

Most likely, your practical remedy is the opportunity to impeach his credibility. See CR 26-37. You can call the police about the perjury, but...

That's probably a class C felony - max sentence is five years and $10,000. Escape from Community Custody (RCW 72.09.310) is level II...

Zero of these ?'s or answers apply if you haven't retained an attorney. OR a guilty plea relieving city liability & get let go?

The Avvo community guidelines say, in pertinent part, "Questions: Please ask questions directly related to your legal concern. The best questions...

What are my options? I was asked to resign, so the City could hire my husband as Chief of Police. I am a clerk at the PD.

L&I's website has good information about workplace rights. http://www.lni.wa.gov/workplacerights/

The improbable part about a slip and fall case is proving the premises owner was a fault.

Is No-Trespass order good, if the property has changed hands, building torn down, new building, new address ect., Exceptions?

See http://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=9A.52.105.

What should I do to prepare?

See RCW 16.08 (http://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=16.08).

You could ask the court for adjustment to your child support order or parenting plan to provide for accountability and verification.