Can I refuse to take a drug test for CPS

Unfortunately, there is no way someone could answer your question since there is little to no information provided. You should seek out an attorney...

Can you request a GVR from SCOTUS if your case was previously denied writ after a they hear a new case?

This is not my area of practice, but there is a good family law attorney in Salem, OR who works mainly with military/veteran family law issues....

Military discharge, medical or forced?

I am curious what the basis for separation is. That is the real issue here.

Why there is no update for my mother case?

Hire an a migration lawyer. From personal experience (wife a green card holder), I don't see how your request is really that abnormal.

Do I need a lawyer to get SS to stop coming after me for overpayment when I have provided all answers and paperwork necessary?

Whether you need an attorney or not is a personal decision, but it sounds like the SSA has made a huge mistake. My guess, SSA will finally get it...

Can I get any benefits or disability from the army?

You have a complicated case. I highly recommend you speak with an attorney or JAG who specializes in medical retirements (MEB/PEB). Often, they try...

If your father submitted a claim, but the VA never processed it, the claim should remain open. If that is actually the case, your mother can step...

Can I sue the military ?

Was your discharge or career impacted by these records? Arguably, it is a privacy act violation for the other veteran (maybe you as well), but...

Accrued accrued benefits from the Army?

I am really confused by the question. You say approved for DIC (I think), but then talking about accused benefits. There is DIC, Survivors...

BAH

I would talk with the JAG office. They are your best bet.