What does my son need to know?

He needs to hire a California criminal defense attorney and not talk about this to anyone but that defense attorney. Repost this in California.

His rules vs real rules?

Either listen to your attorney or fire your attorney and hire a new one. Asking people with far less info for guidance opens you up to some...

Can i legally move out of oregon with my son if neither of us filed custody, i am the only parent that takes care of our child

It depends on the answers to some other questions. I'd suggest a consult with an Attorney so they can help you find the answer.

Do I have any rights as a fiancé

You may have rights if you have a parent and child relationship. Whether you have that sort of relationship can be determined in a discussion with...

I am currently in negotiations to recieve 1/2 of.my ex's PERS account. How does this affect my SSDI

You should really meet in private with an attorney to discuss this. There are many factors to consider and your question and the info provided...

Do I need to pay medical expenses for an 18 yr old child attending school ?

It depends on what the judgment or child support order says.

Yes. Your children have two parents and will benefit from having two parents cooperate in their raising. Is there some reason you don't want to...

How do you get back Child Support that was paid for a child that is NOT yours

There is no way to get it back. It was court ordered.

How can my new husband adopt my son?

An attorney can talk with you about whether and how this can be done.

Can I remove my name from a child's birth certificate

It very likely cannot. You should talk with an attorney in private about adoption.