My colleagues have given you the correct legal answer. I'll just add that I'm very sorry that you are in this difficult situation. Feeling...

What do i do just got a lawyer send me papers from my ex wife trying to change parenting agreement.

First, you must file a Response by the deadline (usually 30 days from the date you were served but check the papers your received to make sure). ...

Custodial parent alienating me from child and leaving parenting time decisions up to her - what do I say?

I'm sorry that you are in such a tough situation. Obviously, you love your kid and want to be connected. Every Oregon county offers free...

Can I take my son this Saturday from her? Also if the father is Present during these visits will I still be able to take him?

It does not sound like a good idea for you or your son. With a court date coming up, I think you want to show that you are a good and responsible...

Would I be considered an absent father and if so, how will that affect visitation? I want to see my girls again.

Yes, you have been an absent parent. And, you clearly love your kids and want to reconnect with them, which can a very good thing for these girls,...

Snow day - When do I need to return my daughter to her mother?

I can understand your wish to spend as much time with your daughter as possible. And...... it probably does not make sense to provoke an argument...

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Can a temporary plan be changed in Mediation or am I stuck with this?

I also agree with my colleagues. Mediation allows the parents to come up with whatever agreements they both think are best. If you and dad can...

Does my child getting older constitute a substantial change of circumstances for a visitation order?

What a good mom you are! Your son will certainly benefit from your refusal to disparage his other parent (and from your willingness to let him...

Child Visitation

I am sorry that you are in such a tough situation. I can imagine how hard it is to raise your kids without dad's financial help. And........

Visitation

I agree with my colleague's answers to your question. For suggested parenting schedules now that you are back in Oregon, look at:...