How much the whole process cost for my husband to adopt them, where do I go in Oregon to do that, and what is the process?

Because the kids are 14 & over, they will need to consent. Your next step is to meet with an Oregon adoption attorney. This should not be difficult.

How do I get this money out, and how do I prevent my stepdad from taking it all?

401k Plans are passed to the person your mother named as beneficiary. You cannot change that. Sorry. But it might be worthwhile for you to call...

No, it does not look bad to change attorneys. Go interview 2-3 attorneys, and hire one ASAP. What looks bad to the court is the fact that you and...

Is it legal that I, as a child when i received the payments, am obligated to pay the overpayment back?

Say what? That child support money was due to your MOTHER, not to you, the child. What the heck is SS doing? You REALLY need to consult with a...

Can any of my situation affect her custody battle and is there any restrictions or things I'm prohibited from doing

Indeed yes! The father certainly can make hay out of the fact that the mother is dateing a convicted sex offender. Your girlfriend needs a...

Can I write a letter to the courts giving a city and date of move or am I required an actual mailing address?

To answer your question, I believe you should give notice of the city and state as soon as you know it. Send a copy to your ex husband. BUT, so...

If that attorney reviewed the court documents and discussed the history of this case with you, his advice is probably sound.

Is there a last will and testament that doesn't cost a lot?? Can I do it myself?

A simple will should cost about $300 in this area. That said, if you ONLY have tangible personal belongings when you pass away, they don't need to...

Do I have a chance? Can I fight him on this? Can he make the estate pay for his funeral trip to his own dads?

If your father passed away in Oregon, there are specific expenses that can be paid out of probate funds. I had trouble understanding your...

Really? You have to ask whether a 12 year old boy can sleep with a girl? He is in the process of becoming a man and thinking about girls. ...