The court generally sets these dates.

I agree with the other responses. Without showing the trust to an attorney, it is impossible to advise how to distribute these issues.

I agree with the other responses, but your travel schedule does not excuse you from appearing. Work with the attorney.

Probably not. You will likely have a community property interest in the property. You need an attorney to examine title and all relevant documents.

Speak directly with an attorney. A revocable trust may be sufficient but more information is needed to say for sure.

Yes, creditor's must be noticed and they have 4 months to file a claim thereafter.

In addition to the above response, yes you can add causes of action.

You are liable until the property division is complete. Get that done and you can sign over title to her and file a release of liability with the...

Just serve the new defendant and file the POS.

You need to be appointed administrator of her estate. That is the only way. An attorney can assist or you can find your way through the probate...