What parties do i send a completed DE-154 form to?

There must be a probate case filed to submit this form. You submit it to the court and the administrator and his/her attorney.

Can someone that is not me accept a TRO?

There are exceptions to the personal service rule. Whether those apply here or not is unclear. With that said, service is meant to give you...

Can an executor of a living trust use the assets of said estate for personal gain?

Only if the will/trust says so. If not, he must distribute/use the property for the benefit of all beneficiaries.

How can i present several video/audio i founnd co parent recorded himself involving drug deals/use (and also during visitation)

You will have to authenticate them for trial. Sure he can claim they are stolen but that does not mean you cannot use them. Don't expect the...

Should I file a Lis Pendens along with the summons I served on my sister for a purported grant deed she has held since 1993.?

You can but you must follow the proper procedures of notice, filing and recording. Is there a reason you are not using an attorney for this? The...

How can I prove an attorney is working pro-bono?

You cannot prove the attorney is working pro bono as that is between the attorney and the client. In addition it should not matter. If you are...

What are you trying to accomplish? Your facts state each of you received a 1 year restraining order against each other. Stay away from her, she...

Signing a stipulation form for a temporary judge in front of clerk before small claims hearing.

Yes, it is normal and if you signed it you stipulated to that temporary judge hearing your case.

How can i get my child back from my parents in Boston MA

You will likely have to file something in MA to dispute custody and get legal custody of your child. You will likely have to prove a return to you...

Singing a form before small claims hearing in front of the clerk.

It is likely a form that you agree to a temporary judge hearing your case which is normal but you can decline.