Is there such thing as an estate paper that needs to be filled out before our money can be disbursed to us?

This term in the trust can be misinterpreted. Some trusts require the beneficiary (i.e. your mother) to survive until distribution. Other trusts...

Lawyer paid for by Trust funds has duty to represent the interests of significant beneficiaries?

Based on your description, the attorney is the attorney for the trustee, despite what the trustee has told you. It would be a conflict of interest...

How can I.find out what is going. On with my grandmother's house and things there was no will and I.don't trust my uncle

If your grandmother had no Trust and she had assets greater than $150,000, then a Petition needs to be filed to probate her estate. You may file...

How do I demonstrate that someone is "unwilling" to serve as Trustee of a Trust?

If they have been serving as trustee and no longer wish to do so, they will likely have to follow the trust terms with respect to resignation.

What the attorneys might have said in court is very different than the written stipulation. What matters is the written stipulation.

Will a notarized letter from a Primary Beneficiary be used for removal of the Successor Trustee? Details

The fact she was declared incompetent by two doctors is troubling. Does brother also have power of attorney? Brother's actions in changing trust...

Probate question, are my sisters heirs of our dad's estate if they were legally adopted by other people?

No, unless there's a Will that says otherwise.

Can I trigger an investigation when Trustee serves me a DE120

If the trustee has filed an accounting with the court, you can file an objection.

Letters of Testamentary when estate had no value?

The health company should accept a small estate affidavit without the need for Letters Testamentary.

Can my Mother assign me Power of Attorney for my Father with Dementia?

Although your mother cannot give you this authority, you can seek conservatorship over your father. You should contact an attorney about doing so.