You put a lot of facts out there like your husband and the father.. Meditation will sort it out.. father is not your ex husband and so this is not...

Depends on the fee agreement. You may need the lawyer in case you are later charged.

You can request from departmet of justice, a print out and see what is there

You need an attorney and to pursue against person who harassed you. DNA is good idea and getting court appointed attorney.

You need to do motion to vacate restraining order based on you did appear and case was not called and you were told it was dismissed.

You need to follow up with your attorney and ask judge again. If denied, you will have to turn yourself in.

Your question is paniced and so I am not sure about items you paid for. She made you return these and did they give you refund for these?...

small claims will not work , same with lawsuit against John Doe. you need to file a lawsuit. If your child was injured, file a victims claim and...

Did you go to trial ? If so, you can file an appeal or a writ.

You may end up paying support. File for divorce and get an attorney.