What some one tells you means nothing. For example if police man says he is not giving you a ticket and you get one in the mail, you have to pay...

Do not take your electronics in to the police station. You should delete most of any contents . Anything deleted can be restored . Only a hammer...

You should bring all witnesses you can and get permission for zoom for as many as you can.

You should just go to trial and waive the disclosures. There are no asetts. Just get it done. No body has lawyers, so this is it.

You would have to go to court and ask it to be lifted

You can thank your friend for this one. The cop should have called for female back up.

You would have to file a court action. You could not move out with the child until you get an order. You might have to wait until she does leave...

By driving knowingly displaying false tags, you commited this crime. The officers run tags and they see this is the wrong car, they can pull you...

Not likely since he has history of not showing up for court. Bail will be high

Evidence can be admitted but arguments can be made as to the weight given evidence.