I came into this country in 2009, can I still apply for deferred action?. I meet all the other requirements except that one.

Sorry but no.

Asylum / citizenship

5 long years!

If Asylum is denied (currently on valid L1B visa) will it affect my future visa change (if I apply change of visa from L1 to H1)

They are non-immigrant visa's so no.

Risky but possible. Make sure you have current ID/passports if you are going to go through with your travel plans.

If Asylum is denied (applied on valid visa) will it impact in anyway my future visa changes and extensions?

As already said, depending on the visa you seek. Did you have an attorney help you with the asylum application? If so, this is an issue that should...

Asylum / VAWA

Marriage would kill his VAWA and you already have to be married for the derivative asylum.

Can I do anything regarding a determination of inadmissibility for immigration?

Why did he get the ban? What is the officer "punishing" him for? Is it possible he misunderstood the officer? Did he have an attorney assist with...

Im fiance visa holding temp. Green card my husband found a new girl and he wants to withdraw his petition what is my best action

Which petition are you referring to? If you have the temp. green card then you might be referring to the 751? If that is the case, then there could...

What are my chances of my charge being reduced to a Misdemeaner?

It's hard to say without knowing more facts. However, as mentioned, the PD (public defender) won't talk with you until you are a "client" of...

Can you file I360 vawa even though your conditional permanent residency has not expired yet?

As already said, there is a way to still obtain permanent residency through your current conditional status. Speak with a lawyer so they may...