Can a conflict panel attorney refuse to take a case or are the bound by the same rule as a public defender?

Yes a conflict attorney can decline a case so the conflict panel just calls another conflict attorney to see if they want the case.

What are the specifics about minors dating and having sex as well as when one turns of age?

Sorry but you are mistaken. Minors cannot consent to sexual relations with adults no matter how long they have been dating.

Can I still date and have sex with my boyfriend that is 18 and I'm 17 when he just turn 18, we were dating before he turned 18?

Minors cannot consent to sexual relations so the answer is no.

Does the Delayed Discovery rule apply here?

You can certainly report it to the police but don't be shocked if they are less than interested in investigating it. I mean 23 years have passed...

Yes it is illegal to send child pornography over the internet. Tell a trusted adult like a teacher or counselor and they will notify the police. ...

If my parents get a restraining order on my boyfriends without my consent but I’m already 18 and he’s 20 what can I do ?

Like Mr. Nakano pointed out, there is additional information you left out. If you live with your parents, which most 18 year old do these days,...

Can someone be forced to go to trial if they don't want to?

Not enough information to answer the question. For example, how close is your brother's case to trial? Usually you can fire a private attorney at...

Is there still time to hire a lawyer if court is within 2 days?

Mr. Marshall is correct. Like any other professional you might want to hire, start calling some attorney's offices and arrange some initial...

Is it illegal to date a guy while he is 18?

Dating is not illegal, but the inevitable sexual conduct that follows. Since a minor cannot consent to sexual relations, the adult must be careful...

Can you help me

And your question is exactly what? Sad story but we all have to deal with bad things in life. Time to move on.